you're skipping a step or two here, and I've burned through enough affiliate pitches to recognise it.
first thing: the best affiliates don't just want a decent commission rate - they need trust signals they can point their audience to. Does your site have genuine reviews, case studies, a demo that works? if someone clicks through and lands on a generic page with no social proof, they're gone.
Second: can you actually convert traffic into paying customers? not theoretically, but proven. if your site hasn't run a single paid campaign or organic funnel that closes, then you're asking an affiliate to do product validation for you. That's a hard pass.
Fix those two fundamentals before you waste time hunting affiliates. you'll either burn through prospects or damage relationships by borrowing someone else's platform to troubleshoot your own leaky funnel.
once the basics are solid, go find them yourself. One method that's worked for me is integration partnerships - build a native integration with a complementary tool, then pitch a co‑promotion to the other product's creator. Target companies slightly ahead of you with the right audience. Offer to build the integration, then work on a campaign together, plus a fair commission on sales they generate.
Another tactic: fire up your favourite SEO tool (I use Ahrefs or Semrush) and find content creators who are actively writing about problems your product solves. reach out with a personalised pitch, not a generic template. show them you've read their work and explain why your product would make their audience's life easier.
Affiliate marketing isn't a shortcut - it's a growth lever that works only when the engine underneath is tuned. Get the product and site solid first, then recruit strategically.