I had a look at the site and also ran some sampling with Screaming Frog to get a sense of the structure and implementation.
The first that catches my attention is the /go/ block in robots.txt. Your affiliate links are already marked with rel="nofollow sponsored noopener", which is the right direction for paid/affiliate links - while you could remove nofollow as it as originally created for links in blog comments and sponsored is the correct definition here.
You are basically telling Google; Hey, come and see how great my site is, so you can rank it, but I am not going to show you where I send the users, because I decided to both cloak and block the URLs. This doesn't really rhyme with "helpful content".
From the sitemaps I saw roughly:
- 10k+ product URLs
- 6k+ comparison URLs
- 2k+ cross/facet-style landing pages
- hundreds of brand/category/facet URLs
That is a lot for a new affiliate/comparison site, especially in an adult niche.
A few things I would fix first:
Remove the disallow of /go in robots.txt
Some sitemap URLs are noindexed. Only canonical, indexable URLs should be in XML sitemaps.
Some comparison pages have conflicting canonicals: a self-canonical plus another canonical to /sammenlign/. That is a serious signal conflict.
Prioritize category pages, best guides, and comparison pages that genuinely help users choose. Make sure you have a great tracking plan and detailed custom event tracking implemented, so you can actually tell how the users engage with the site. This is the signal Google is looking after today!
Add explicit/adult metadata where appropriate, e.g. <meta name="rating" content="adult">.
I'd be a bit skeptical of the backlink profile. Sooner or later (if not already) Google will probably catch up to the pattern.
On the content point: "non-spun" and "unique" content is not enough anymore. That was a 2018 way of thinking. Google can crawl a page, see that the words are unique, and still decide it does not add enough value to index. Unique content is definitely not a commodity anymore after LLMs entered the scene. Content quality is. And entity-coverage is what they are looking for beyond user signals.
The real question is not "is this text unique?" but:
- Is this page more useful than the shop/product pages it sends users to?
- Does it help the user choose better, faster, or safer?
- Is there original testing, real comparison logic, editorial judgment, pros/cons, price history, availability, merchant trust data, or something users cannot get elsewhere?
- Would this page deserve to rank if affiliate revenue was removed from the equation?
Right now my guess is: Google sees a new adult affiliate/comparison site with blocked outbound links, a huge number of similar commercial URLs, mixed canonical/noindex signals, and not enough proven unique value yet. So it crawls, but chooses not to index most of it.