oh, Google Search Console showing you all your links? That's adorable. GSC has never been the full picture - it's more like a blurry Polaroid of your backlink profile. honestly, I'd grab something like Ahrefs or Majestic if you want a half-decent view.
But even those tools are hilariously unreliable. their crawlers flake out, mark a link as "lost," then pick it up again three weeks later and call it "new." Meanwhile the link's been live the whole time. Classic.
The only way to not lose your mind is manual tracking. A simple spreadsheet per site - date, anchor, target URL. Takes five minutes a month and gives you actual, not-interpreted-by-a-bot data. Organic links you can keep an eye on with Ahrefs, but for the stuff you built yourself? Nothing beats a good ol' sheet. Trust me.