Great questions - I love that you're digging into the mechanics properly. it's rare to see someone actually care about how money flows, not just the vanity metrics.
from my own time dealing with DSPs, here's the nasty truth most people don't want to say out loud:
🔹 There's always an oversell first, clean up later mentality.
When you're the DSP rep, your job is to pull budget through your pipe. Your team's safety depends on it. So budget allocation stops being about "right vs. wrong" and becomes "more is always better." It's not malicious - it's just survival.
🔹 Inventory access is rarely the real blocker.
SSPs have already done the hard work convincing publishers to join their "premium marketplace." Publishers smell money, so they'll let your DSP buy whatever inventory you actually need. If you're after brand-safe premium stuff, any half-decent DSP will have pre-built lists ready.
🔹 For performance campaigns? Go wide as hell.
You want maximum sample size to let the algorithm learn. The only upfront filtering should be obvious fraud-heavy domains. Start broad, pile your targeting on top, then trim the dead weight during optimisation.
🔹 Do grill them on their lists and deals.
Ask what curated lists they already have, push for always-on private marketplace deals, get yourself onto their "frequently used" placements. Fair warning: they might fob you off if you're not worth their time.
and on a side note - Good old SSU. i was one of the first to turn it on in my market years ago. It absolutely murdered my SSP and ad network revenue. Killed it. switched it off and never had the guts to flick it back on. Never looked back.