oh, tell me about it. Nothing like watching a vanity metric skyrocket while your actual user base throws a party somewhere you're not invited. the real tragedy? All those downloads from people who open the app once, trip over the onboarding, and ghost you forever.
i've learned this the hard way: stop throwing cash at ads before you've stalked where your actual loyal users hang out. discord servers, niche forums, even bloody TikTok comment sections - go find them before Meta takes your budget hostage. Otherwise you're just paying for a parade of the wrong people.