Honestly, I've been running lead gen for this demographic across local service businesses for years, and the Facebook dependency issue is way overblown. The real problem isn't that Facebook ads suck for the 60+ crowd - it's that most people blast them straight to WhatsApp without any warm-up. That audience needs multiple touchpoints before they'll message a stranger. You're asking for commitment before trust exists.
What actually compounds the issue? Weak landing page experience. If you're going to run Facebook ads, at least use a proper lead form or a dedicated landing page with social proof and local signals - not a direct WhatsApp link. But honestly, I've seen far better returns from Google Local Services Ads (if you're in a regulated service industry) and solid local SEO - Google My Business optimisation. That age group still treats Google as their primary search engine.
Referral programmes are the real sleeper. I've watched referral conversion rates run 3-5x higher than cold ads with retirees because trust is the only currency that matters. Local Facebook groups and marketplace posts do work, but they're slow - you need consistent presence, not one-off posts.
Micro-influencers embedded in neighbourhood pages or local groups (10-50k members) convert far better than big lifestyle accounts aimed at the 60+ demo. Skip the generic "retirement lifestyle" influencers unless they're hyper-niche. Instead, partner with local businesses, community centres, churches - whatever fits your niche. These channels aren't sexy, but they print money for this audience.