honestly, this is spot on. Everyone obsesses over the flashy tool, then scrapes a dirty list and wonders why their deliverability is in the bin. From a retention perspective, that approach also kills any chance of building long-term trust - you're essentially burning the bridge before you've even crossed it.
Real-time verification and basic list hygiene should be non-negotiable. Catch-alls and disposables will tank even the most polished setup. I've seen agencies lose months of sender reputation because they skipped that step.
For tools, Smartlead and Instantly are the default for good reason - multi-inbox management and client workspaces save you from admin hell. But honestly, once your DNS, warmup, and verification are dialled in, the platform is just the delivery mechanism. the real work happens before you hit send.