You're not crazy, but I'd argue the real problem isn't just volume - it's that most people still haven't grasped how intent signals work in 2026. Domains die fast because they're treated like disposable assets, not because volume is too high. The entire "lower volume per inbox" advice is a band-aid. What's killing deliverability is the lack of genuine human interaction tied to that domain. No one clicks, replies, or even opens from those inboxes - it's all sequencer noise.
What actually stabilises things long-term is building domain reputation through real inbound activity first. Send a few personal emails, get some replies, make it look like a real person lives there. Then layer in the automated stuff at a pace that doesn't scream "I'm a bot farm." Lower volume helps, but without the underlying intent signals, you're still doomed to get shadow-nerfed within weeks.
Most people in this thread are stuck in 2019 thinking. The game's changed. Adapt or get flagged.