Spent weeks digging through "marketing communities" and most are either dead, full of self-promo, or just regurgitate the same basic advice. the ones that feel remotely useful are usually tiny, invite-only groups where people actually share real campaign data and what flopped. even then, it takes forever to find a conversation that isn't just a vendor pitching their tool. The entire world feels like a desert for anyone wanting to talk honestly about what works right now, especially for outreach that doesn't feel spammy